Are married women allowed to have fantasies-about other men?

You cannot control your thoughts while you are sleeping. But if you were fantasizing while you were awake then that is called cheating. It could be because of your insecurities toward your husband that you are having those kinds of dreams. And it could also have something to do because you don't enjoy . Have you told your husband that you don't enjoy ? Maybe there is something that he's not doing. And if think that it's very important for you to talk to him about it.